Have not yet decided what new beliefs and references I require, but here are some of the old ones that have been standing in my way:
It's too hard. It's not worth it. I can't do it. It will never work.
I'm not good enough as I am. I don't deserve it.
I don't feel like it. It's too much trouble. He/she/they will get upset no matter what I do.
Nobody can understand. Nobody is there for me.
There are no guarantees.
While some may argue that some of those are perfectly healthy and rational beliefs, I can see where they are having a negative impact in every aspect of my life.
Not only in my marriage, but in all my relationships, in my finances, in my health, in my spirituality...
All across the board those unhealthy beliefs have been keeping me disempowered and feeling insecure.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
