Emotional responsesaren't inheriently a bad thing. But here? In this? This is mostly all logical do's and dont's.
The GOOD emotional responses tend to be very few and far between, and most errode at good DB pratices.
The words difficult, hard... Yes, man I wasn't a robot when I got here, I'm not a robot now, I know there isn't a switch. However, just because it is hard, or difficult...look there is a reason people keep saying to not be emotional involved with interactions, and it isn't because it's fun to tell the new guys this.
It's because it helps you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK