Kinda took the air out of my feeling good over the kiss in the first place.
Learn the Art of STFU.
X that was all fine and good, and you went and pushed it.
"I'm sure it was hard for you..."
There you were looking for her to VALIDATE you.
"Oh no honey, it wasn't hard, it was easy, it was sooo easy..lets go to bed together!"
You pushed it, hoping for the response you wanted. Hell man, you even said:
"I'm sure that wasn't easy for you..."
Don't do that. Basic rule in Dbing, don't ask questions hoping to hear an answer you want, it is very similar.
That beautiful moment was partially ruined by your want/expectation/hope of getting a little bit more out of it, a verbal validation that it was easy for her.
Brother if it was easy? You wouldn't be in piecing right now. Give her credit for doing it. Don't take away credit that she was honest, with your statement.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
