maybe you can think of dating the young guys and the Santa Claus' as networking. You never know..
It's a numbers game, I'm starting to realize.
The Henry Cloud book recommends dating FIVE at once! He says that once you start going out a lot and dating a lot, you change your energy, which makes you more attractive and then you get more dates. (paraphrasing here)... He is a little too conservative for me, but I really liked the book as a whole.
Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker