My break through was that I know WHY she is leaving now. Also, a seed was planted in her to have her think. I don't want her to jump right back in with both feet...I just need there to be some doubt in her mind about her decision. Odds are we are still going to get divorced, but this really leaves the door open for the future. It shows me that while she may not think things are fixable right now, I know they are and that gives me even more of a peace.
Maybe I am just giddy over how this is making me feel right now. I just know in my heart, that this was a good thing. It completes the puzzle as to why. I really needed that.
Thank you for responding. I will be thinking about what you said throughout the day.
