Let Us Be Outstanding Together - 2

[zengypsy]

BM:

I know she had said she wanted to attend but perhaps now she has changed her mind. I know that you have left this an option for her to participate or not.

What you have to remember what works for you may not work for her. In other words, I am a huge fan of therapy and my STXH is not. He would NEVER attend a session of any kind. Does that mean it's wrong? No. It just means that he prefers to resolve his own stuff in a different way. He doesn't have to do it MY way. And that was part of my problem; my way or the highway.

You have given yourself a great gift my being able to afford a DB session or set of sessions. Use them to your full advantage for YOU. You can bring a horse to the water, but you can't make him drink.