I need to tell my wife that I have rescheduled our DB session for a time when I think she might be available.
Right now our coach is only available on Mondays.
In my last email to her, when I upset her with my comments about me starting to look for someone else, in the very same breath that as I asked her if she could keep our 5 pm appointment, she responded very angrily.
The message I am thinking of sending to her soon is:
"I was able to reschedule our counseling appointment on Monday. Instead of 5 pm, it is now at 6 pm. As I have already spoken to the counselor by myself, she seemed to think it would be better if you were also able to speak to her alone.
Please let me know if you are able to call her at 6pm on Monday, and if you would rather speak to her by yourself or have me on the phone with you."
What do you think?
An immediate and practical answer ?
Let me get this straight....
She is PUSHING for a divorce....
And you are going to contact her about a session with a DB coach ?
In hopes of what exactly ?
That the session is gonna be some magic pill that is going to change her mind ?
She knows that the session is Monday...right ?
She knows what SHE has to do to be part of that.....right?
What is pushing her into it, possibly going to do ?
Except show her , that YOUR way is the only way right now....
Sorry dude...that is as practical as I can get about that...
Use that time with the coach for YOU....
An Army doesn't send an enemy it's attack plan anyway...
