Now here's an immediate and practical question.

I need to tell my wife that I have rescheduled our DB session for a time when I think she might be available.

Right now our coach is only available on Mondays.

In my last email to her, when I upset her with my comments about me starting to look for someone else, in the very same breath that as I asked her if she could keep our 5 pm appointment, she responded very angrily.

The message I am thinking of sending to her soon is:

"I was able to reschedule our counseling appointment on Monday.
Instead of 5 pm, it is now at 6 pm. As I have already spoken to the counselor by myself, she seemed to think it would be better if you were also able to speak to her alone.


Please let me know if you are able to call her at 6pm on Monday, and if you would rather speak to her by yourself or have me on the phone with you."


What do you think?


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?