Thanks Cyrena, CL... I'm very thankful for all the support that helped me get my marriage reconnected first. I think that if it hadn't turned into my 'safe, warm place to be' I wouldn't have had the strength or enough self-compassion to work through all this old unresolved pain. It likely would have stayed buried, continuing to hurt me and affect how I function in all my relationships.


I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.