Last night I reeived a text from my wife thanking me for paying the repairs on her car. Her sister also called me and said that my wife was angry because I had had a lady friend and that she was hurt about it. My wifes sister also said that my wife was happy I was going into individual counseling. I was not sure about the lies I was accused of. Jeanette told me her ex-husband would avoid confrontation with her by not saying things he knew she would become angry with. To that end I will admit that I may have told a white lie to avoid arguments but I never lied over anything big such as an affair. Virginia apparently has been upset over these white lies which honestly is news to me. In any case I plan to put this all on the table with my counselor. I dont know why I feel what I am about to say. In my heart I feel like my wife will come back to me. Her sister said to me this is all good because she is hurt and angry but she said she thinks we will get through it. I hope so. I have not had any contact with any females since if there is a chance we would mend the fence I dont want a third party involved. There would have never been another woman had she not moved out of the house. I do love my wife and hope things improve. Bobby O
