Will I get shot if I suggest that you take a date to the wedding? Nothing serious, no real dating, maybe a female friend or co-worker she hasn't met yet (because you are not ready to date yet if you're still trying to decide to stop DB'ing or not). A friend date would be a good support system, a good distraction, someone who can you dance with, laugh with, etc and enjoy the night with and NOT obsess about your W. And when they are exchanging vows in the wedding, in your head loudly say the Pledge of Allegiance or any other non-romantic verse you have memorized to drown out the vows and marriage stuff that you don't need to hear and get upset about with your W feet away. JMHO.



[edited by dbmod to add note: This can be dangerous to your marriage, dating is not recommended. ]

Last edited by dbmod; 03/12/11 02:44 PM.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11