ZG:
I guess she won't know. It doesn't really matter anyway.

We talked briefly after her IC session tonight(she agreed that she needed help because of her problems controlling her anger) and she feels she has to pursue separation in order to get away from what's causing her anger (me). She told me that she hates me for trying to save our marriage (asking for MC, DB coaching) when she is done with it. I guess I've been pursuing and not detaching.

She wants to talk to a L about her rights and separation agreement.

Two weeks ago when she said I shouldn't move out because of the money hardship I did know that she did want me to go.

Now I think I do need to move out and give her space like she wants. That would be listening to her.

Married 15 years
3 children 13, 12, 10
1st D bomb Jan 09
2nd D bomb Feb 11
I moved out June 11