Originally Posted By: AJM80
I'm considering filing for D. Maybe that seems crazy, since I am on here and am very against it, but I don't want to spend the next 2 years getting jerked around. I keep dreaming that he admits he cheated on me throughout our whole relationship (pretty sure this is not true). I think I've been watching too much "Teen Mom 2"

AJ - I know that seems like an honest solution right now, but is it really the solution for you?

Through all of these stories, I see one with you that has great hope. I understand how much you are hurting right now. I really do. If you have an ounce of hope that you and your H can fully reconcile after this is over, I think you should stick with it. I really do not see this OW as a long time problem.

Keep doing what you are doing. Patience is key here. You are an amazing mother, and it shows. You are a strong person that has their head on their shoulders. If you think that your H can be the person that completes your family, give yourself more time and keep doing what you are doing.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated