Yep, it can. Takes some time for those wounds to heal but I found that really putting things into perspective, for the long run, certainly helped! We had some very exepensive and irreplacable artwork that I may never get back that he felt "entitled to" but at the end of it all, I looked at it like it was just "stuff". There were so many things that were, and still are, far more important to me ... my dignity was one!

Love and hugs to ya Courageous ... you will get through this.


Me: 41
STBXH: 36
D: 11
S: 9
BOMB 12/2009
SEPARATED 5/2010
D SERVED BY ME 9/2010
FINAL D When I'm ready