My kids don't know H has moved out. My IC thinks I should tell them "Daddy needs to do some work and he can't do it here at home so he will be staying with his friend for a while." H keeps wanting me to say he's at work, but they know he doesn't work this much. Tonight D4 asked why I told her "daddy will come over tomorrow." I don't want to hurt the kids, but if this is going to go on for any length of time I can't keep lying either. What should I do?
Me- 35 H- 36 M- 7 T- 9 D3, D5 Bomb 1/21/11 EA/PA began 12/10? Discovered A 3/2/11 S- 3/3/11 OW gone- 4/27/11 H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action
