And when you get so tired that you're ready to get out of the M just b/c you're tired of emotions, you'll drop the rope. When you drop the rope...then you'll probably see a change in her. But you guys just won't do it. You wait until you've gone completely dry and have nothing else to give before you do what should have been done when she dropped the bomb.
So, fear has brought you to this point. Plain old fear of dropping the rope.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
