But part of me is right there with the Karma theory. What goes around comes around.
9L, that's not what Im talking about. That way is just being a jerk.
What I mean is for you to let her deal with her issues for herself. We man tend to want to be rescuers, it's natural for us to think that way. You are an enabler towards her.
I remember if my W was in a bad mood it brouht the whole family down. I tried to appease her but I know now that was wrong. I should have let her deal with her problems alone.
Perfect exam[le is all of us LBS here. It took our S leaving us for us to make a change.They left our issues with us. We chose to get help through these forums.
Let her chose how she gets her help.
It normal not to know what you want right now too. But it time when you look back you will learn and know what you want.
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I believe she is the type of person that may NEVER be happy. If thats the case, why would I want her back with even so much more baggage than she had befo
I hear you, my W is no happier now then when she left me. Turns out I'm not the cause of her unhappiness.
We are all responsible for our own happiness.
Take time for yourself.
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