The only thing is, he has to know that his actions have some form of consequence. I recently realized how passive I was being. I was allowing him to use my car more than I used it. Comforting him when he seemed to be down, being intimate with him and then realized that he is not doing ANYTHING for me. I understand that he doesn't view me as his wife anymore but it is NOT ok to completely abandon someone and leave them for dead. Luckily I have this money coming in or else I would be out on the streets. The only thing I am asking him for is a little bit of money to help support myself and he's crying poor mouth. He moved into a fancy neighborhood and didn't think about how this would affect me at all. I think that I should let the judge decide what is appropriate because the two of us are not able to come to an agreement. Btw Cat I am in therapy for the depression; refuse to take any meds though. Sigh This really [censored]. I told him that I would be petitioning for spousal support and he got angry and nasty. Said I was being "spiteful" and that he see's the "true me" now. I knew that this would back fire but at the same time he will walk all over me if I allow him to. No more Ms. Nice Guy.
Me: 27 H: 27 M:5 years Together: 9 years No Children Bomb: 1/1/11 ILYNILWY & Wants Separation Moved Out: 1/30/11 Has not filed yet but says that he does not want to reconcile
