Just got home from work. W had therapy this afternoon, first one in about a month. I'm trying hard not to ask how it went, giving space & loving detachment are tough. I got home a little early, she was in bathroom with her cell phone, probably talking to OM. She goes up there because the kids are downstairs. She knows I'm aware of the frequency & duration of her chats with OM, but I don't bring it up. I figure it is just a matter of time before she drops the "I think I'm in love with him" bomb, and I'm dreading that conversation.
How should I react, what is the right DB thing to say when slapped with that?


Me 46 W 43
M 17
S 14
D 11
ILYB 9/2010
EA began July/August 2010 ?
PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ?
I began DB in Jan 2011
I filed 7/12/11
Kids and I moved out 7/30/11
I'm in it for the kids and me.