9 two conflicting opinions.

1 is a hard line approach and the other is DB unless you are Last Resorting it.

If you can afford to be nice and comforting what does it hurt you to do so?

And you guys might become legally seperated but that doesn't make you 'ex''s yet, or did I miss something?


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