That's how i feel too. But i guess it's better they don't choose ow or om instead of us completely.
W has aleady chosen OM. Fortunately he's married and lives in Ohio. That R will ultimately go nowhere (in my estimation).
But I cannot be waiting around for her to emerge from the fog. Who knows how long that will take. It's never really over as far as DBing goes, but it's over. KWIM?
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."