Karma, I am glad you’re feeling better about yourself. Confidence is infectious. We all need more of it.
In another thread I read a post from you about all of your hobbies and how they contributed to your sitch. IMO I don’t think abandoning them all is necessarily a good thing. Moderation might be better.
One of my W’s complaints about me was she felt like we were joined at the hip. When we were courting, we were and she liked it. We would even walk 180 out of synch and match stride so our near legs would be in contact with each other.
My point is when she complained about being joined at the hip, she was asking for some detachment. A hobby or two might have enabled me to give her that, and I might not be here now.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill