I on the other hand I find the most discomfort in being in limbo - $hit or get off the pot! Divorce or reconcile, It's him or me etc etc. I guess that comes from detaching. I will not allow myself to be hurt or angered by anything she says or does any more.
Pickle, IDK when I feel this way it seems more like the resentment stage of grieving than detachment. I cycle and I think most of us do.
Be careful of giving ultimatums during an emotional state.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
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