A New Day?

[islander]

Bond,

We are going to start counseling hopefully next week. We have already started talking about how we got to where we are at right now, and I know we have a lot more to talk about. The one thing we have going for us is we had a good relationship to begin with, we just got off track.

I will look at the book you suggested, but I think I am going to buy His Needs Her Needs tonight. I read the entire book, and I think it does a good job explaining both how we got here and how to move on after the affair.

Denver,
Thanks for your support. I don't think I will have to worry about backsliding, but I will keep it in mind and be on guard. I don't feel like I am the same person I was 6 months ago. I want more out of our M. I am not going to settle for the status quo or think that I can wait till tomorrow or have the rest of our lives to fix a problem I know we have. That was the old me. I recognized the problem, didn't realize the seriousness of thinking we had eternity to fix it.