Cas! Brilliant news to hear that you are beginning to talk through things.. Believe me I know how much this is an exciting moment but at the same time a great deal of treading on glass has to be done, as your H will be feeling very vulnerable.. Also this adds to your pain as you have to become the grown up in this situation and in some cases allow them a get out clause.. What I can promise is that although you may not get full realisation and responsibility at this time look at the crumbs and hope for the cake, I got big crumbs at this point but the cake is coming albeit nearly a year later from reconciliation.
The link doesnt connect to your new thread so can you put another one here..
Love to you all as always
Rabbit x
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!