Is this a game they play? I question why my H would put me through this. I KNOW he is confused. However, his confusion is hurting me. Last night he was all chatty with me. BUT, it seems as soon as he catches himself, he turns ice cold.
Is it easier to DB when they are out of the house? With him in the house, I always feel that he is watching my every move in secret. He has said that he is moving for the last 4 months. Is he or isn't he?
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
I have a family funeral to attend tonight. I told H about this 1 week ago. He never asked about it again. Do I 1) remind him 2) remind him that I am going 3) or just go?
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
IMO, just go, try and get ready early enough he has time to wonder, but don't remind him. If he asks politely tell him.
IMO, he isn't doing this to upset you. It got forgotten in the fog. Just leaving nicely without reminding him make him accountable for forgetting. You're not his social secretary.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
Think about it this way. It's like he's back in high school. Being an @$$ with attitude. So you need to show him that he doesn't matter to you. Don't include him in things, just do it.
Sorry to hear about your loss. Funerals are good in the way that they make you appreciate the fact that you are alive. YOU are alive. You will be fine.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
so, I never responded to his snarky text. 4 or 5 hours ago...180...He just sent me a text "are you going?" I responded, "Yes, leaving at 4" He writes "Enjoy"
Should I "re-ask" him if he is going?
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
