Originally Posted By: islander

but the closer I get the more scared I become of losing her. This has to be natural.


I think that this is completely normal. I feel the exact same way.

I'm happy for you Islander. Stay focused though. One thing that I can tell you is that the closer that you get to reconciling, the more focused that you need to be not to backslide into old habits.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce