Nothing serious. Like I said, asked how I was feeling. Gave me some advice, she is an RN. Asked about D. Told me about the crazy OM's W. Money she owes me. Stuff like that.
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She's cheating on you but want to do something for your Bday? That just does not compute.
Trust me, I know. None of this computes to me. My guess, she will do something small and it will be from our D, not from her. We'll see.
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Image how much she will be thinking about you once you show her you're moving on with or life? She's on the fence right now deciding what to do. The one side is this new OM that makes me feel so good. He makes me feel excitement. On the other side is comfort, a forgiving man that I can fall back on if things don't work out with OM.
Removing yourself from the equtaion will have her thinking more about you and what she is really giving up.
This does make sense. In a lot of ways I am moving on. The balance there is still just tough for me. Especially with our D involved. Like I said, I do ignore her text quite a bit, I am always short when I do reply. I will talk to the DB coach about this again, see if there is anything I should change here.
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Why do you allow her to come buy the house? Does she still pay the mortgage with you?
Yeah, she does.
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How did Christopher Columbus convince people the world was round after it has been flat since the beginning of time? People see/believe what they want to believe. You cannot reason logically with a WAW.
She is being led by her feelings.
I know, one thing is for certain, she is not acting logically. I understand that. I tried early on, realized that it is impossible. Who knows if she will ever step back and look at what she is doing. IDK, not in my power to convince her, I know that.
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