So now it is finally clear to me emotionally as well as intellectually what these boards are all about.
In my head I always knew these boards were more about me becoming the best me possible than they were about saving my marriage.
I just didn't want to believe it.
Guess that old part of me that wanted to remain a victim, that needed to be dependent on other people, and need other people to validate him and give him his self-worth...
Guess that old passenger really liked his mule.
Gonna pause here and catch my breath.
Well, that certainly is ONE definition....
Unless, of course, you see the forest instead of the trees.
And.....
Losing this...
Quote:
Guess that old part of me that wanted to remain a victim, that needed to be dependent on other people, and need other people to validate him and give him his self-worth...
And adding this....
Quote:
me becoming the best me possible
Gives you the best chance to save your marriage....
