This is a good thing. Trust me. I know you want the fairy tale ending and I am pulling for you but dont make the same mistake I made. My W came back with a note that pledged undying love, 7 pages of it. But the problem was, it was just a note. It was never there in her eyes, in her kiss or hug.
We just went through the motions and she contiued her affair.
I hate to say this and I hope i am wrong but be very careful about the OM. She admitted to you that she may have trouble getting over him. Her head says that you are the correct choice but her heart may still belong to him. And that may take some time to get over. Do you have the stones to see her crying over him at times. She may never tell you why she is upset but that may be the reason.
As i say, I am not trying to put a damper on your success. When My W came back, she promised me she would never leave again but then 4 months later, she is gone and still with OM.
The councelling is a positive step and maybe she will come arouund and commit herself to you completely. I think you should be wary when she says she will NEVER cheat again.
All the best Islander. Those are just my opinions and I am jaded to be sure.
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