PUTTING HOPE AWAY

[ninelives]

Hey guys and gals:

Havent posted for awhile but I have been following many of your threads. Especially FOBD, DENVER, Islander, COUNTRY, IDLE
etc..

Congrats to Denver. Looks like you are on your way

Also Islander
I do caution both of you , especially Islander. Be careful. She may turn at any time. My wife came back to me and continued her affair after a couple of weeks.

Okay, heres my update for those of you that can remember.

I went to the birthday party of our son. It was very awkward and she was nice to me but I paid her little attention. It was very difficult for me to be at her house were she had her affair with OM and continues to sleep with him there when she doesnt have the our son. Not everydsay and I dont really know when this happens but I know it does.

She has been nice to me but I ignore her for the most part. The only time I see her as at our sons hockey games where I coach and we dont talk there.

She contacted me a few weeks ago prior to this , very upset about the way her life is going. I asked her if she believed in Karma and she questioned why.

I told her that I must have done some bad things for the state of our lives to be going this way. She told me she would probably come back as a snake in her next life to pay back the hurt she has caused.

I asked her not to text me anymore last week unless it was an emergency with the kids. And she complied for the most part.

Yesterday, I called her because son was sick and I asked her if she worked today. She told me she wasnt working so I asked her if she would look after our son.

Then I had a change of heart. I decided to call in sick, something I rarely ever do , to look after son 10.

I called her back and told her that I was going to look after son and thanks but I wouldnt be needing her.

She said she wanted to look after him and that it was her pleasure to do so.

I politely declined her assistance. and spent a great day home with our son.

She texted me a few hours later saying she missed looking after him whe he was sick and that boy things sure have changed. I think she meant that I actually took a day off rather than go to work. That really bothered her that I would not take sick days when I am given 20 paid ones a year.


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