I know you are all right. I really got my hopes up too soon. I have made an appointment to see an individual counselor next week and suggested that my wife do the same thing. She told me she loved me the other day and her concern is what people think of her and our situation. She is also admitting that it was not my job to make her happy. She had to make herself happy. I think these are positive steps. In my heart if she loves me then she will try to come back and that is where the piecing part needs to be done. She is going to have to do the work and I need to work on me. The thing I think worked best for me was detaching and going about my life without her. This I think sparked interest again. Will see what happens and again I appreciate everyones help. This has been one hell of a ride. Bobby O
