So tonight, H and I had a brief skype chat. He asked about my day and commented briefly on things I told him.Not much conversation at all.
H said that he had been thinking about apologising to my parents but wasn't sure how to do it. He's worried that he'll make a bigger mess than the one already. I told him to worry about today only and that I could support him but he had to initiate. I said it was all up to him and I would never tell him what to do. He said he knew he had my support. He said he wanted to think about the best way to approach them.
Again I am shocked at how low his opinion is of himself