This last post from you is great! I like what you've been doing with the boys.
This statement shows how you are improving in your role as family leader:
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I'm not afraid to take the lead in family matters and my W has suprised me (no, SHOCKED me!) by actually LETTING me get in front a bit, instead of having to always be the one in charge.
Goes to show that most W's want their H to lead. Sometimes, it takes a while for the W to hand over the reigns if she's had to be the main leader for a long time. Mothers, especially, get into a habit of telling the kids what to do and making decisions for them....and if she's not careful, she'll be doing the same for her H.
IMHO, W's want to be treated as equal partners in the M, but at the same time, I think it's their born instint to want the H to be strong in his role also.
Keep up the good work!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
