FOBD

This is normal. What you are feeling.

After we extend so much effort with the goal of getting our spouse back and don't see results, or our results.

We start to question the effort.

This the point where you have to figure out why you are doing this.

You are starting to learn you can't control what your W does or wants.

So

She is not not giving you what YOU want right now.

Now is when you have to dig deep down and figure out what FOBD wants.

What kind of man does FOBD want to be.

What is FOBD willing to do for himself and his M without the guarantee his M will be saved.

You are at a crossroad.

Keep giving your W the power in your life by attaching your happiness and success to what she does or does not do.

And you will fail. Whether she does what you want or not.

Or

Do for YOU

Regardless of the outcome.

Only way through this is through it.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am