I agree that you should not admit to something you haven't done. I guess the question would be why your W insists that you do. I suppose it's possible that it's her guilt for doing what she's done and she needs something substantial to justify that??? To even the score so to speak. These are just ideas Bobby, as no one can really know.
Do not react to her threats. I believe they are meant to get a reaction out of you. I truly think that this move she made is not giving her the happiness she thought it would. She may be starting to process all of it, but she is not ready to meet you half way yet.
If you haven't read the MLC resources yet, or it has been a while, do yourself a favor and go back over them. You will see that what she is doing is typical of the MLCer.
