I have been receiving texts and phone messages from my wife. There is a stalemate. She will not consider counseling unless I admit to affair while we were married that never happened. I dont know how to get her past that. I am so frustrated and now she is threatening to date and have an affair. I can not believe that knowing this wife of mine for thirty years;that it has come to this. I want things to work but she has to meet me half way. Any ideas out there? Bobby O