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[courageous wife]

1. How do I mention to H about the late nights at the hockey rink, etc. without causing an argument
2. How do I bring up that this whole separation has likely had an affect on her grades
3. I also want to mention that I think she has had a very difficult year and that if we pull her away from her class now, and friends she has been with since Kindergarten, it will be more detrimental on her in the long run.

Some good questions MMI...haven't had to deal with this stuff so not sure I can be of much help...with the school work, you can always schedule a conference with the teacher/counselor that both of you could attend.

I think if you just say it in a way that you are including/asking for his feedback it is showing him that you value his input????

I bet there are lots of websites that could google that would help with this...