Is anyone one the board right now. Ive had a horrible day. I cant handle much more of this. Ive been hoping for maybe a chance that H would come back. I found out today he was with OW again 2 weekends ago. I haven t heard from him in over 2 weeks. I want to be mad at him but i cant be. I miss him terribly. We have been M for 29 years. Ups and downs of course throughout. He left in dec.2010. File D papers in Feb.2010. Do these affairs last? Its an out of state on too. He has just lost his family. Is it worth it to him? Im so devastated today. I cant get pass this no matter how many people tell me or how hard i try. Do they come back? Do they come back after they file papers? How does someone he got reacquainted with after 35 years make him want to lose his family? Someone, anyone if you have a minute could you answer.
________________________________ Me 51, H56 married 29 yrs together 34 S 27, D 25, D 22 bomb 12-6-10 served 2-6-10
Sorry no one has responded to your post yet Rue. I'm new to this, so I have no answers. I am sure some come back and others don't. I am giving this post a bump so hopefully you get some encouragement. All I can say is you must emotionally detach from your H for your own wellbeing. That's the first thing. Take care of yourself. I'll keep you in prayer. Pickle
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
