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Me: 49
WAW: 42
Together: 4 1/2 years
Married: 8/9/10
Bomb Dropped: Nov/9/2010

Current status: 2 days ago (03/09/11) I received her notarized divorce papers. She is now waiting for me to sign and return them so she can make it final.


I had a great DB coaching session with Dottie on Monday. Right now my intention is to get my WAW to the DB table before I return the papers.

This just in, a couple of moments ago...

WAW:

How was your session??
Are you going to sign the papers?
I'm at work but you can email or try to call later if you'd like or call in am when I'm on my way home.


So now I must decide how to respond.
My first question is, do I call her or send an email.
And my second question is, what do I actually say?

Here is what I'm thinking...

The session was really helpful.

Gave me certainty on what I need to do for me, regardless of what happens with you and me in the future.

I'm not comfortable signing the papers yet, but I agree with what you said about best friends working together to figure out what is best.

The counselor suggested it might be more beneficial for you to speak with her alone, rather than having me there with you.

Are you be able to call her on Monday at 5 pm?



You all have been so hopeful.
May I have your feedback once again?

crazy


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?