grr, this is a tough one. In a way, yes you did backslide. But, as a w and a human being, there are times when you have a right to some answers. I know I am probably going to start an argument here, but you do have a right to know certain things. Like, uh, I don't know, if your H still wants a divorce. I love the DB'ing principles and I do believe they work. But, with some spouses, if you go cold on them, coldness is what you will get back. Before you know it, everyone has walked away from the table and the marriage is over for good.

Just some thoughts...

I just don't know any more.

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...