Karma and Punchy, Thanks for the input. And, don't worry, I am not in any way offended by your inputs. Yes, I am a bit lucky in the fact that we don't have children who might get hurt in this thing. And, yes, the time apart from her has helped me to better understand myself and my faults and shortcomings.
It just comes down to a basic principle of civility. We were together for 15 years, married for 10, lived together for 12. You would think that I deserve just a bit better than to be completely ignored. But, I guess thinking like that is thinking logically. Nothing to this point in her actions has been logical, so I am not sure why I expect anything differently now.
I so badly want to save this thing. More than words will ever express. But, if you were in a boat out at sea and it was leaking, would you continue to bail as hard as you could while someone in the front of the boat continued to shoot holes in the floor???
I wish both of you the very best in your own sitchs. I hope someday we call all be a in a happier and better place with our without our current spouses.
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
