My H is like that too - comes home with tons of new stuff - he buys cookware, a fish fryer, tons of spices.... definitely not the actions of someone who has a foot out the door. Rather that of one who is nesting. Weird, right? Its like their actions are not consistent with words.
Don't be surprised , MLC=Confusion
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go