What kind of counselor is this? That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard of. There's a difference between being dependent and being there when you need support. Does she allow you to contact her when you have those moments of crisis?
Change your counselor. Is this person a professional? What does and has she been suggesting to you?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.