Hi A lot has happened since my last post, unfortunately not much good. W found the charge for Coaching on the bank statement and didn't react well. I didn't bother trying to hide it since I don't do those types of things and she had not looked at checking acct for the past year.
I tried explaining to her that I felt it was my attempt to change to be a better person and husband. I didn't mention that she wanted out and would only go to MC only to convince me it was over. She was mad that I spent money without telling her when she wants to save for separation.
I also sent her the link to the website. I didn't tell her I was posting here. Now I'm thinking I should stop posting here to avoid her finding it and getting pissed. The other option is to be to tell her I'm posting our sitch here. I'm leaning toward the former.
Married 15 years 3 children 13, 12, 10 1st D bomb Jan 09 2nd D bomb Feb 11 I moved out June 11