Piecing is almost harder than before #2...

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I believe this post has some of what you are looking for:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...852#Post1413852

We talked...actually I talked. But she agreed to it.

I recall saying that I was going to have questions, and I was going to do my best not to ask them every time we talked, or were together. In fact I was going to do my best not to ask questions or want to have an R talk.

But to figure on once every month or so, in the meantime if something was really bothering me and I couldn't figure it out on my own, I'd bring it up with her. I also told her that I wanted to trust her, but I'd be verifying that my trust was not misplaced.

Harrier, I really came to the conclusion that many of the questions I really really thought I needed the answers to...became unimportant in the face of her working toward being us.

I trust my wife because of all the days we pieced together. Not from the time prior to it, if that makes sense. I trust my wife, because she showed me she was worth it.