Hey enlightened

When our spouses throw the D bomb at us, i think all of us react similarly. So dont worry about how you have reacted until now.

Dont plead, beg, cry or in any way show your wife that you are needy. Seek help from friends or good family members, or this forum if you need emotional support

If your wife wants a divorce and set on it, you cannot control her mind to change. She needs to make that decision herself. I am going through the same thing. My wife wants final divorce decree signed next week or so. Look, divorce is just a legal paper. Your M is over only when you feel like it is over.


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M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...