How would you have reacted differently if you assumed she had fallen asleep rather than she forgot or didn't want to talk or had gotten busy? I'm sure you would have been a lot more understanding in your head before you got her apology text. Maybe even sent her a text first saying sleep well and I'll talk to you tomorrow or some such?
It's easy to get caught on the negatives. That's a danger of all relationships all the time. You really have to find ways to keep yourself focused on the positives. Obviously there's lot of them here, but do you also keep a journal? What else boosts your mood - working out, playing music, listening to certain types of music? Do all of them!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2