Good luck, bboom. You are taking all the right steps.
Those are my key pieces as well. 180, GAL, detach.
Sometimes it is difficult to stick to them, but it gets better everyday for me. W has begun to notice all of the changes, but I have to remind myself that these are for me and not her. That seems to be counter intuitive to a divorce busting site, but I am starting to realize that I can only change myself. W is on her own to make her choices.
Read and reread DR. I took a highlighter to it and studied it as if it was a textbook from college.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
