Ignore all that. Take a look again at what he said.
It's costing HIM alot of money. Maybe it's an MLC.
He's processing his thoughts and saying them out loud. Right now all he thinks is negative and that it's him against the world.
Bullsh*t. While you can't control what he thinks, you can plant little seeds of positivity that may steer his thinking in a positive manner. Compliment him at times even when he doesn't reciprocate or says something nasty in response.
I've used the analogy before that MLC is like a hurricane. Your H is the hurricane and is destroying everything he held precious. Out of control and going in every direction. You must be like the mountain that stands in its path. No matter what he throws at you, you will stand strong and won't budge. You are the strong woman who will not be moved emotionally or physically.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.